So, I take the note as a reminder to be gentle with my Cheyenne. Forgive me darling if I am too pushy. If you have looked at me with the impression of a perfectionist mom, I apologize. I actually wouldn't want you to be perfect. I want you to make mistakes and keep learning. And NO--don't try to be perfect for you will never be. Only through your mistakes that you learn and become a better person.
So ,relax----I want you to enjoy life to the fullest. If making mistakes is what it takes, then let it be.
I love you even your stupid mistakes will not change that.
REMINDER - I am not a perfect mom so maybe you need to remind me that sometimes :-)